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Child Bereavement UK

Child Bereavement UK, now including Winston’s Wish

Support for bereaved children and young people up to 25, and parents or carers whose child is dying or died before their 26th birthday. Also offers guidance for the adults supporting them.

  • Children and young people
  • Pregnancy, baby or child loss
  • Grief before a death
  • Supporting someone else

Free support, helpline and online resources. See the provider for contact hours and available services.

Free access UK

Sands

Pregnancy and baby loss support

A place for parents, families and others affected by the death of a baby to find a helpline, local groups and resources. Its support is available even when the loss was long ago.

  • Pregnancy, baby or child loss
  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Supporting someone else

Free helpline and support resources. Check current opening hours. Interpreters can be requested.

Free access UK

Marie Curie grief support

Marie Curie

Information on grief, caring for someone who is dying and looking after yourself. The UK support line can help you find the next step when you would like to talk.

  • Grief before a death
  • The early days
  • Supporting someone else
  • Death of a partner
  • Family, friends and siblings

Free information and support line; check the website for current contact hours.

Books by local voices

Memoirs, practical guides and books to read together. Choose what feels right, and put a book down whenever you need to. Libraries may offer print, digital or audio editions.

Borrow or buy UK author

Grief Works

Julia Samuel

Therapist-led guide

A UK grief psychotherapist uses stories from her work to explore different bereavements and ways of offering support. For adults grieving a death and people trying to be alongside them.

  • The early days
  • Death of a partner
  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Pregnancy, baby or child loss
  • Supporting someone else

Paid book; ask a library about borrowing or accessible editions.

Content note: Accounts of several kinds of death, including the death of children.

Why this book is here

Recommended in Cruse’s Reading Well selection, which draws on health experts and readers with lived experience.

Sources checked 2026-10-05

Borrow or buy UK author and illustrator

Michael Rosen’s Sad Book

Michael Rosen; illustrated by Quentin Blake

Picture book, ages 5–7 with an adult

A British father’s account of sadness after his son died, told through words and pictures. A book to read alongside a child and leave room for their questions, rather than a promise that sadness disappears.

  • Children and young people
  • Pregnancy, baby or child loss
  • Supporting someone else

Paid book; ask a library about borrowing or accessible editions.

Content note: Death of a son; adults may find it moving too.

Why this book is here

Walker identifies it as an award-winning picture book for families talking about loss.

Borrow or buy UK author

With the End in Mind

Kathryn Mannix

Palliative care stories

A UK palliative care doctor shares stories about dying and conversations at the end of life. May suit someone facing a loved one’s illness or wanting to feel more able to talk about death.

  • Grief before a death
  • Supporting someone else

Paid book; ask a library about borrowing or accessible editions.

Content note: Descriptions of illness and dying.

Why this book is here

Chosen for the author’s clinical experience in palliative care and its focus on preparing for conversations.

Things to read and try

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

Grief before someone dies

Marie Curie

Explains anticipatory grief and some feelings that can come with caring for someone who has a terminal illness. Includes a short video and suggestions for finding support.

  • Grief before a death
  • Supporting someone else

Free online information.

Free access US information, readable anywhere

Resources for children, teens and young adults

Dougy Center

Age-specific activities, information and support for families before and after a death. Includes material for parents and caregivers, and a Spanish-language resource collection.

  • Children and young people
  • Supporting someone else
  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Sudden death or suicide loss
  • Grief before a death

Free resources; use the age and audience sections to find a starting point.

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

When someone has just died: how to help

Cruse Bereavement Support

Ideas for listening, offering practical help and sharing memories without trying to fix another person’s grief. For friends, family and colleagues who want to be there.

  • Supporting someone else
  • The early days

Free online information.

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

Being there on anniversaries and later on

Cruse Bereavement Support

Ways to keep supporting someone after the first weeks, remember important dates and continue making room for the person who died in conversation.

  • Anniversaries and ongoing grief
  • Supporting someone else

Free online information.

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

When grief and family conflict overlap

Cruse Bereavement Support

Explores why people in the same family can grieve differently and why tensions may grow after a death. A starting point for understanding difficult feelings and seeking support.

  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Supporting someone else

Free online information.

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

Coping with the loss of a pet

Blue Cross

Information for people grieving a pet or assistance animal, including grief before a death. The UK charity also describes its pet-loss support options; check access from your location.

  • Loss of a pet
  • Grief before a death
  • Supporting someone else

Free online information.

Something to listen to

Free access US podcast, available online

Grief Out Loud

Dougy Center; hosted by Jana DeCristofaro

Conversations about the many ways people experience grief. Browse episode descriptions and choose a topic that feels right; listening can be an alternative when reading feels hard.

  • The early days
  • Children and young people
  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Death of a partner
  • Pregnancy, baby or child loss
  • Sudden death or suicide loss
  • Grief before a death
  • Anniversaries and ongoing grief
  • Supporting someone else

Free podcast. Episodes vary in length and subject.

Content note: Some episodes discuss suicide, violence or the death of a child. Check the episode description.

When you are ready for the practical things

Paperwork and arrangements can feel like a lot. Our separate loss guides help you keep track of practical tasks, one step at a time.

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Support that fits you

Your relationship, culture, faith and language matter. You can ask a provider about these, accessibility and costs before you begin. If distress is making everyday life difficult, a doctor or qualified counsellor can help you find further support.

How we choose and care for this library

We include local authors, established bereavement organisations and clearly attributed lived experience. Book notes explain the selection: a publisher description is different from a professional recommendation. Links are not affiliate links.

These are starting points, not treatment or a guarantee of fit. Sources and contacts were checked on the dates shown; availability and fees can change. We aim to review entries every three months. Service providers set their own privacy terms.

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