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What to do when someone dies in United States

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Dougy Center

A directory of grief support programmes, with information to help families locate support for children and young people. Contact the individual programme to understand its approach and availability.

  • Children and young people
  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Supporting someone else

The directory is free. Local programme eligibility, fees and waiting times vary.

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Share Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support

Share

Resources and peer support after pregnancy loss, stillbirth or a baby’s death in the first months of life. Find programmes and local chapters suited to your circumstances.

  • Pregnancy, baby or child loss
  • Supporting someone else
  • Family, friends and siblings

Check the programme or chapter for meeting access, availability and any fees.

Books by local voices

Memoirs, practical guides and books to read together. Choose what feels right, and put a book down whenever you need to. Libraries may offer print, digital or audio editions.

Borrow or buy US author

It’s OK That You’re Not OK

Megan Devine

Practical guide and lived experience

A US therapist and bereaved partner writes about living with grief in a culture that often wants to fix it. Includes ideas for grieving people and for friends who want to offer meaningful support.

  • The early days
  • Death of a partner
  • Sudden death or suicide loss
  • Supporting someone else

Paid book; ask a library about borrowing or accessible editions.

Content note: Sudden death of a partner.

Why this book is here

Included in Lancashire Teaching Hospitals’ grief reading list.

NHS library reading list (PDF)

Things to read and try

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

Grief before someone dies

Marie Curie

Explains anticipatory grief and some feelings that can come with caring for someone who has a terminal illness. Includes a short video and suggestions for finding support.

  • Grief before a death
  • Supporting someone else

Free online information.

Free access US information, readable anywhere

Resources for children, teens and young adults

Dougy Center

Age-specific activities, information and support for families before and after a death. Includes material for parents and caregivers, and a Spanish-language resource collection.

  • Children and young people
  • Supporting someone else
  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Sudden death or suicide loss
  • Grief before a death

Free resources; use the age and audience sections to find a starting point.

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

When someone has just died: how to help

Cruse Bereavement Support

Ideas for listening, offering practical help and sharing memories without trying to fix another person’s grief. For friends, family and colleagues who want to be there.

  • Supporting someone else
  • The early days

Free online information.

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

Being there on anniversaries and later on

Cruse Bereavement Support

Ways to keep supporting someone after the first weeks, remember important dates and continue making room for the person who died in conversation.

  • Anniversaries and ongoing grief
  • Supporting someone else

Free online information.

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

When grief and family conflict overlap

Cruse Bereavement Support

Explores why people in the same family can grieve differently and why tensions may grow after a death. A starting point for understanding difficult feelings and seeking support.

  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Supporting someone else

Free online information.

Free access UK information, readable anywhere

Coping with the loss of a pet

Blue Cross

Information for people grieving a pet or assistance animal, including grief before a death. The UK charity also describes its pet-loss support options; check access from your location.

  • Loss of a pet
  • Grief before a death
  • Supporting someone else

Free online information.

Something to listen to

Free access US podcast, available online

Grief Out Loud

Dougy Center; hosted by Jana DeCristofaro

Conversations about the many ways people experience grief. Browse episode descriptions and choose a topic that feels right; listening can be an alternative when reading feels hard.

  • The early days
  • Children and young people
  • Family, friends and siblings
  • Death of a partner
  • Pregnancy, baby or child loss
  • Sudden death or suicide loss
  • Grief before a death
  • Anniversaries and ongoing grief
  • Supporting someone else

Free podcast. Episodes vary in length and subject.

Content note: Some episodes discuss suicide, violence or the death of a child. Check the episode description.

When you are ready for the practical things

Paperwork and arrangements can feel like a lot. Our separate loss guides help you keep track of practical tasks, one step at a time.

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Support that fits you

Your relationship, culture, faith and language matter. You can ask a provider about these, accessibility and costs before you begin. If distress is making everyday life difficult, a doctor or qualified counsellor can help you find further support.

How we choose and care for this library

We include local authors, established bereavement organisations and clearly attributed lived experience. Book notes explain the selection: a publisher description is different from a professional recommendation. Links are not affiliate links.

These are starting points, not treatment or a guarantee of fit. Sources and contacts were checked on the dates shown; availability and fees can change. We aim to review entries every three months. Service providers set their own privacy terms.

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